The ten minute make up routine for busy mornings

Sunday, 4 February 2018



If you're anything like me, you don't do mornings.

I struggle with motivating myself to get ready at the best of times but getting ready to go at 6am on a weekday does not equal a happy Amber. 

Sadly though we all have to make ourselves look presentable for work and that usually requires putting on a bit of make up to hide my under eye bags make myself look and feel better.

As much as I love make up most of the time I don't have the energy to create something spectacular on your average week day. 

Particularly because it's cold, dark and nobody will notice what my amazing eye make up looks like once I'm sat behind my partition at my desk. 

So I have whittled my morning make up routine to such a peak of efficiency that it now takes me less than 10 minutes to achieve.

Base

I always start with my bareMinerals Complexion Rescue Tinted  Gel. This stuff is fab and great if you like to wear a bit of a base but don't want anything too heavy. 

I find this gives a 'soft focus' effect (similar to Charlotte Tilbury's Wonderglow) and blurs imperfections rather than hiding them. This foundation is light and it will not cover a blemish or hide redness. But it does give a smoothed appearance without hiding what your face actually looks like.

It's long wearing and I find it works well on my combination skin. It is best applied with your fingers and less is DEFINITELY more with this (which is good because it lasts a long time). You need a pea size and that is it. Any more and you will not get it to blend evenly. I love that it can be applied with fingers because it means less brushes to wash and its quick and easy.

A word of warning though, this product does NOT get on with any sort of silicone primer. I once tried it with The Ordinary's High Adherence Silicone primer. Big mistake. They did not mesh well together and it peeled off my face in huge strings of gloop. I had to wash it all off and start again.

In all honesty this product doesn't need a primer as it stays put well by itself. 

I wear this in shade 06 Ginger but it comes in a large shade range which should suit a lot of people. 

It also contains SPF 30 which is perfect for me in the winter when I'm inside an office all day. 

To hide my tiredness I use my Maybelline Instant Age Rewind Eraser which twists up and you apply it directly to your under eye area using the sponge applicator. I wish this came in more shades as it doesn't give you many options. 

I blend this using my Primark Beautyblender (these are amazing btw) and that's my make up base done.

Brows

I probably spend the most time on my eyebrows and use three different products ( I know, I'm high maintenance). 

I like a soft natural look so I use an angled brush to apply my Mac eyeshadow in Cork in small feathery strokes. I define the underside of my brow first and work upwards.

I have a bald patch in both my eyebrows where the arch is (one is worse than the other) so I use my NYX eyebrow pencil to fill in any sparse areas and then the spooley on the other end to tidy things up.

I set my brows using my Benefit Gimme Brow eyebrow gel, which keeps everything in place throughout the day.

Eyes

On mornings where I am getting ready this quickly I only bother with mascara. At the moment I am using the Lancome Grandiose mascara which has it's very unusual swan neck wand. I actually really like this mascara and find that the different shape of the wand does help you to evenly reach all of the awkward bits. 

This mascara stays put all day and doesn't flake off. It's only annoying thing is I struggle to apply this without getting some of it on my upper eyelid. I just dip a cotton bud in micellar water and do a two second clean up.

This does give quite a bold, thick look to lashes, which might not be to everyone's liking but I quite like a dramatic look. 

Cheeks

This is the part of the look I switch up the most but lately I've been exclusively using my NARS blusher in Orgasm. I've recently seen a lot of people saying they don't like the cult favourite but I personally love it.

It's a soft pink with a gold shimmer running through it. I find it gives a natural flush to the cheeks and the shimmer means I don't need to use a highlighter which saves me time.

NARS blushes are legendary for their staying power and this stays put all day. 

Lips

I also like to mix up my lip colour but my Clinique Chubby Stick Intense in Curviest Caramel never leaves my handbag.

I usually apply this in the rear view mirror of my car as I'm about to get out and go to work and I love how easy and fuss free it is.

The twist up pencil doesn't require sharpening and it has good staying power. The formula is more lipstick like than the other chubby sticks and as a result it only needs reapplying a few times throughout the day.

The colour is incredibly flattering and is a warm nude with just enough brown. It's my favourite nude shade and easily my most worn lip product. It's perfect for any time that you want to 'play it safe' like a job interview but also when you're in a hurry like me in the morning and don't have time to be worrying about your lipstick. 

So that is how I get myself out of the door in time without scaring my co workers. Do you have any favourite products for when you're in a hurry? Let me know in the comments as I'm always looking for new products to speed up my routine even more.

Things that have made me happy this week

Sunday, 28 January 2018



The past few weeks haven't been the best for me, it seems like everything is going wrong! But I think it's important to remember there's still things to happy about.

1. It's getting noticeably lighter.

It feels like the winter solstice was forever ago but it finally seems like it is starting to get a bit lighter. Like most people I leave for work when it's dark and don't get home until it's properly dark again. It can get very depressing and I get quite frustrated that I spend all my daylight hours in an office. But I've noticed that it's no longer completely pitch black when I leave work.

Summer is creeping a bit closer every day!

2. Cadbury's hot chocolate.

I had forgotten how amazing this is with real milk. I've had a few mugs of this in the evening recently when it's been cold and miserable outside. I haven't had it for years and it always cheers me up. It's so much richer and creamier than the stuff you make with boiling water. A swirl of salted caramel added to it makes it even nicer ;)

3. Our cat.

Every morning when I get up she's waiting outside my door ready to come and get into bed with me for cuddles. I look forward to it every day.

She wasn't very well before Christmas and it made me so sad to see her looking so unhappy and ill. I'm so glad she seems to have recovered and is back to her old self.

4. My part time studying is going well.

I'm currently studying part time alongside working and it's been going well this week. I'm nearly halfway through the course. I'm actually ahead of schedule at the moment which is nice because it makes me feel like I have enough time to take things at the pace I need to. 

Going back to studying after a break is tricky, particularly as I've never studied this sort of material before. 

Now I need to keep the momentum going!

5. Cookie dough.

Over Christmas I made two batches of chocolate orange cookies and froze them ready for when I had a cookie craving. 

I was feeling a little low and craving something sweet so I dug these out of the freezer.
They were so so good and they were ready in 15 minutes. I'm glad I've still got the other batch ready for when I need another cookie hit...

Is there anything that has made you happy this week? It's always good to try and appreciate the little things!

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Spend vs Save: Tata Harper or Burt's Bees Cleansing Oil

Sunday, 21 January 2018



How you choose to spend your money is such a personal thing, some people love their designer clothes, others like to spend their money on exotic travel.

For me I have always liked spending my money on my make up and skin care. Fashions change but well looked after skin never goes out of style. 

I like my skincare expensive and high end but like most of us this isn't something I can afford all the time. Instead I compromise and mix in lower end products with my more expensive ones.

Whilst I 100% agree with Caroline Hirons that there is no such thing as a dupe in skincare (you often get what you pay for in terms of research and ingredients) that doesn't mean that there aren't great products to be found at the more affordable level. This is more true of some brands than others.

When we started saving to buy our house I had to cut all unnecessary spending and that my meant I couldn't afford to replace some of my high end favourites when they ran out.

I started trying more affordable alternatives and have found some excellent products that I had never tried before, including this wonderful Burt's Bees oil.

Starting off with the more expensive of the two though:


There's no getting away from the fact the price tag for this is eye watering. So much so I'm not sure I will ever be able to replace it when it runs out.

This cleansing oil though is beautiful and it smells divine and I like to imagine I am at an expensive spa. I feel so calm and relaxed when I use this (which admittedly is sparingly because it's so expensive). It leaves skin incredibly soft and clean.

I use this morning or evening but I have to admit I have only ever used this as a second cleanse. 

While I am sure this would effortlessly remove make up I do not want to waste it on that and prefer to use other (cheaper) products for that task. 

It is very gentle and I imagine it would work well for almost everyone. 

I save this oil for when I need a mood lift or my skin is in need of rescuing and luckily a little goes a long way!


The Burt's Bees cleaning oil is significantly more affordable than the Tata Harper version and as a result I use it far more often.

I have used this product to remove make up and it takes even waterproof eye make up off effortlessly. It's also wonderful in the morning or as a second cleanse.

Like the Tata Harper oil this leaves skin soft and is incredibly gentle. Because its an oil you do not get the uncomfortable 'tight' feeling that other cleansers can cause.  

You only need two to three pumps of this to remove a whole face of make up so it lasts a long time.

Despite it's cheaper price tag this still smells and feels lovely (although not quite as lovely as the Tata Harper one). 

The Burt's Bees oil is definitely more of the workhorse in my collection and I have recommended it to several people.

Although it isn't exactly cheap at £17 it is frequently on offer and is far easier to get hold of than the Tata Harper oil.

Overall verdict?

Although I adore the Tata Harper oil I'm not sure that it's cost can be justified when the Burt's Bees version performs as well and costs a fraction of the price. 

If you have the budget then definitely treat yourself to the Tata Harper oil as it is wonderful but for the rest of us the Burt's Bees one does the same job and is much kinder to your wallet. 

Have you ever tried either of these? Or do you have an even cheaper alternative than the Burt's Bees version? Let me know in the comments!


Projects for our Garden in 2018

Sunday, 14 January 2018



1. Expand our bird feeders

When we first moved into our house in late Autumn we put a bird feeder in the tree in our garden. It has taken a while for the birds to be brave enough to use it but they are now feeding from it regularly.

I'd really like to get some more feeders such as ones for sunflower seeds or fat balls to encourage more birds to visit our garden.

2. Create a mini pond

Our garden is far too small to have a decent size pond but a water source is really important for encouraging wildlife to live in your garden.

I saw this project for creating a mini pond and thought it looked like fun, as well as being small enough for our space.

It also looks super easy, which is always good for gardening novices like myself.

3. Get a bug hotel

As part of providing a home for wildlife in our garden I'd like to get a bug hotel. You can make these yourself but some of the ones you can buy are really cute.

They cost hardly any money either and it would be nice to start adding some character to our garden as it's currently pretty sparse.

4. Get a fruit tree

Our garden already has a large cherry tree (which sadly doesn't seem to fruit) and some crab apple trees but I'd really like to get some sort of potted fruit tree.

Most likely an apple tree.

We don't have space for a whole orchard but one that is compact enough for a pot would be perfect.

5. Train some climbers up our trellis

We have a trellis that separates our oil tank from the rest of the garden and I would love to grow some climbers up it to hide this eyesore from view.

My mum has a honeysuckle growing in her garden that she took as a cutting from our old house.

But the original plant was a cutting from my Grandma's garden and I really like the idea of taking a bit of it with us to our new house (particularly as honeysuckle is quite easy to grow from a cutting).

6. Grow some fruit in our hanging baskets (probably strawberries and cherry tomatoes)

I always enjoy growing tomatoes and I'd like to make the most of the small space in our garden and grow something in hanging baskets.

The added advantage is they would have the heat from the wall of the house and from the fact it faces south. Plus they're right next to our water butt for easy watering. 

7. Attempt to help our lawn recover

We have a small lawn that is currently looking a little bit sad.

My cousin (who owned the house before us) has two small children and they had a trampoline and various toys in the garden. As a result our lawn has a lot of bare patches and it quite sparse and weedy in places.

My parents bought us a lawnmower for Christmas so hopefully come Spring we can fertilise and reseed it. After that we should now be able to mow it regularly.

Fingers crossed with a bit of TLC it will recover a bit. I'm not bothered about it not being a 100% perfect ornamental lawn. It would just be nice if it was a little better.

8. Challenge myself to grow something new

I tend to grow similar things each year and I'd like to branch out this and try to grow something I haven't attempted before. Perhaps runner beans or courgettes. Something simple and that can be grown in a pot.

9. Start a compost heap

Every garden needs one, even if it's just somewhere to get rid of your lawn clippings.

Again, this is another super easy project and hopefully one that will reward me further down the line when I've got ready made compost on hand.

10. Trim our cherry tree

This is something that needs doing fairly soon while the tree is still dormant during the winter but it needs cutting back a bit. Some of the branches are quite low and it's starting to take over the garden. 

11. Get a coldframe

This would help a low with lots of different plants and I've asked my very DIY orientated sister is she could build me one. Hopefully she'll feel the urge to build something new at some point!

12. Get some patio furniture

There's not much point having a garden if you can't enjoy it! We're in need of a table and chairs so we can sit outside and use the space. 

Our budget is tight so I'll probably be on the look out for some second hand items.

13. Host a BBQ

Hopefully by the summer our garden will be a little more welcoming and it would be great to invite some family and friends over for some laid back food and drink!

Our house buying story

Sunday, 7 January 2018



First off, this is an absolute monster of a blog post so you might want to grab yourself a cup of tea and settle yourself in!
The journey of buying our first house has been far from straightforward.
While we going through it I scoured the internet to see if I could find anything from someone who had experienced the same problems as us and how they had solved them. 

The internet was pretty sparse when it came to advice on the issues I was struggling with. I understood how Hermione felt when she couldn't find any reference to the Half Blood Prince in the Hogwarts library. 
I’m sure we are far from alone in our experience but I thought I would share it with you all, in case there is anyone else out there who this will help.
This post is going to be 100% honest about everything from money to how long things took. When I was looking for info I desperately wanted ALL of the details so I have tried my best to include them.

Saving for our deposit
We started our house buying journey in July 2016 straight after we both graduated. I started my first job that month and Jared started at his in August. 

We both had £1,000 each in savings each from our final pay cheques with our part time jobs we had worked while we were at university.
We were looking forward to our trip to Norway in February 2017, which we had paid for out of the holiday pay we had accrued over the last year of part time work. 

Neither of us had any personal debt or overdrafts as we had both worked part time throughout our degrees in order to avoid graduating with personal debt (student loans don’t count). 
So we both started work full time and moved back home to live with my parents. We paid them rent of £200 per month each and we both saved £500 per month. 

So each month we added another £1,000 to our savings, which was a pretty good level for us. 

We were earning above minimum wage but well below the £21,000 threshold to repay our student loans. We both also paid around £65 into our workplace pensions each month.

The point I am trying to make is that neither of us had very much money to live on as the vast majority of it was going on rent to my parents and savings. 

I was also paying £40 per week for car parking, which meant I had less than £250 to live on each month. 
We took a small break from our saving in January 2017 to pay for our the trips we went on while we were in Norway but other than that we stuck to it religiously. 

I got a better job in April 2017 and my pay rise went on repaying some money I owed to my sister. 
I contacted our mortgage broker at London & Country who told me that with my pay rise we could afford to borrow £180,000. With a 10% deposit of £20,000 that gave us a budget of £200,000, which isn’t very much for where we live but we were optimistic. 
We had a long way of saving to go for our £20,000 deposit plus stamp duty and legal fees but were making steady progress.

Finding the house
We first heard about the house in March 2017. My Nan mentioned to my that my cousin was thinking of selling her house and that it would be perfect for Jared and me. 

We were initially dubious as we were still a long way off our saving goal but decided to look into it anyway. 
The house was built in 2007 by the Rural Housing Trust and is part of a scheme for building affordable houses for local people. The idea is similar to both shared ownership and shared equity schemes.
Under this scheme, you buy a fixed proportion of the house (in our case 60%) which is similar to shared ownership. 

However, unlike shared ownership you cannot ever buy out the remaining part that you don’t own. This is to ensure that the house does not leave the scheme and is available for future residents. 
With normal shared ownership schemes you pay rent on the share you don’t own. However with houses built under this scheme you don’t pay any rent. 

You pay for the mortgage on the 60% you own and service charges to the Housing Association that is appointed to manage the property and that’s it. In our case our service charge is currently £27.50 a month. This pays for our buildings insurance and maintenance of the external shared part of the housing estate.
The house was on the market for £215,000, which meant that you were purchasing 60% at £129,000 and would then need a mortgage of £116,100 with a 10% deposit of £12,900. 

As 60% of the value of the house was only just over the threshold for Stamp Duty at the time (£125,000) we would only pay about £80 in stamp duty. 
For us this was perfect as it meant we could afford to do what we had always wanted and buy a house in the village I had grown up in as we only needed to borrow £116,100. 

Living in Wiltshire, the average property price here is well above our maximum £200,000 budget, even for a very small house.
I registered with Help to Buy South and asked my cousin to let me know when it was going on the market so that I could register my interest in the property.

Being offered the house
As I’m sure you can imagine this scheme is hugely popular and this house was the first one in the development to ever be resold. It was also the first resale of its kind that the Housing Association had ever dealt with. 
Not to put too fine a point on it, but they were clueless about how to handle this. I called up the housing association on the promised day to register my interest and was told that they had decided to delay advertising the house until the following day. However the lady I spoke to let me register my interest anyway as the house was already on their system and was ready to be advertised.
The housing association have a month to find a buyer for the property, at which point the owner (my cousin in this case) can advertise it on the open market. 

The following weekend after the house was advertised, there was a local Help to Buy homeshow and the house was featured in it. As a result more than FIFTY people registered their interest in the house. 
However, the key purpose of this scheme is to provide affordable housing for local people. As such the house has a Section 106 agreement that sets out the order of priority for people who qualify for it. 

First in line are people who live or work in our village and those with family there. I was born in the village, have lived there all my life and my entire family lives there. The house even currently belonged to my cousin! We were hopeful that there was unlikely to be someone who could beat my credentials. 
I waited an anxious week to find out if we had made the short list. At which point I got a call from the housing association saying we had made the top 5 and were invited to view the house. 

When I asked where I was in the list I was told we were currently second on the list as there was someone from the military who had registered an interest. 
For those that don’t know Shared Ownership housing schemes give priority to military personnel. 

Living where I do in Wiltshire there are members of the military quite literally everywhere, so the chances of us being offered any shared ownership house are slim to none. 

I was heart broken. The perfect house for us was about to be offered to someone else, who didn’t technically even qualify for it as they didn’t live in the village. 
I checked with my family and they told me the house was build on allotments that were previously owned by the Church and that the Parish Council had only agreed to sell the land for development because the Rural Housing Trust offer this scheme for affordable houses for local people. 

My parents urged me to find out more about it as they were convinced the Housing Association were wrong, as this house did not fall under the rules for normal shared ownership.
Whenever I spoke to the Housing Association about it, I was flatly told it was government policy that all Shared Ownership houses were offered to the military no matter what and my points about them breaking the planning agreement that the house was built on fell on deaf ears. 
I decided I needed to look into it a bit more. I downloaded all of the planning documents from Wiltshire Council and read them all in detail but there was no Section 106 agreement within them. 

I called the council instead and found out the name of the person who deals with this and got them to send me the Section 106 agreement, which clearly stated that this house was only to be offered to local people. 
I even spoke to the person in charge of this at Wiltshire Council, who assured me that I was correct and the Housing Association had it wrong. 
I sent everything onto the Housing Association and my cousin got her solicitor (who handled the house when she originally purchased it) to look into it for us.

Viewing the house
In the meantime we were invited to view the house towards the end of April 2017. As it was owned by my cousin I was vaguely familiar with it but Jared had never been there. 

We went over at 7pm as the person from the military had arranged to view the house at 6pm. 

When we arrived my cousin was furious that he had never even showed up. We were looking round the house when he knocked on the door and demanded to view the house now. Even though he was now almost two hours late and we were already there viewing it. 

My cousin asked him to ring up and make another appointment for a different time.

Viewing the house was hard, because the more I looked at it, the more I knew it was perfect for us. I was trying very hard not to fall in love with it. Jared loved it too and we both went home feeling rather deflated as the Housing Association were adamant that the planning permission for the house meant nothing compared to the government policy to offer the house to military personnel.

To top it all another couple came to view the house and one of them was also born in the village with family there. Our chances of being offered it seemed lower than ever. 

Being offered the house

The man from the military never called back and made another appointment. On Friday, a week later I received a call from the Housing Association to say that they had got their solicitors to look into the info that I and my cousins solicitors had sent them and had concluded that we were correct and that the person from the military had no claim on the house.
They then told me they were a bit stumped on how to chose between us and the other couple as we both equally qualified for the house. 

Thankfully they decided in the end to go with who had registered their interest in the house first. 

As I had registered before the house was even advertised there was no way they could offer it to anyone but us.
I walked around in a daze for the rest of the day. Jared and I went to Bath at the weekend and had a fantastic celebratory lunch at Turtle Bay and dreamt of what our new house would be like. It was such a triumphant moment I could scarcely believe my insistence and research had paid off.

Getting our Mortgage offer
The following Monday I immediately called up several local solicitors and asked for quotes. 

We decided to go with Bonallock & Bishop as they are on the Housing Association’s panel so offered us a discount. 

They were also on the panel of all the major lenders and had a solicitor who specialised in first time buyers and all types of shared ownership houses. 
I let our mortgage broker know that we had been offered the house and would like to proceed with our mortgage application. We did all of this over the phone in about 40 minutes and then we had to wait for the house to be valued by the lender.
I received a letter from the housing association on the 22nd May 2017 formally offering us the house and setting out the timetable. 

We had to have our mortgage offer by 22nd June, ready to exchange contracts by 22nd July and we were to complete before 22nd August. 

If this deadline was missed the house would have to be revalued, at which point the asking price could change and we would possibly have to reapply for our mortgage and effectively start over. 
The house was valued by the mortgage lender about ten days later and three days after that I got a call to say our mortgage offer had been accepted! 

I forwarded the copy of the mortgage to the Housing Association and they quickly approved it.  
We were so happy as this is the major hurdle for most people. I called the solicitors and instructed our searches. 

I sat and marvelled about how swimmingly everything was going and that if we continued to make good progress we should have the keys in plenty of time to meet the deadline.

Dealing with the down valuation
That was pretty much the point where the real nightmare began. If I thought I had had to battle just to be offered the house I had no idea what was in store!
A few days after I had been offered the mortgage and it arrived through the post I had a call from my mortgage broker to say there had been a mistake and that we shouldn’t have been offered the mortgage as the house had been down valued to £202,000.
The lender had not taken into account that the whole house was on the market at £215,000 and that we were only buying 60% of it at £129,000. As £202,000 is a bigger amount than £129,000 their systems had not recognised this as a down valuation and had offered is the mortgage in error. 
The mortgage valuation is where the lender sends someone to value the house to check its worth what you’re paying for it. This is in case you don’t pay your mortgage and the lender needs to sell the house, they need to make sure they can get their money back.
If it is the same value or higher than you have agreed to pay then you are good to go. If their valuation is lower than what you have agreed then you find yourself in a tricky situation.
You have pretty much three options:
1.       Walk away from the house and look for something else.
2.       Decide you are comfortable with the fact the down valuation will effect your loan to value ratio and renegotiate with the lender.
3.       Haggle with the seller and get them to drop the price.
None of these options were really available to me for the following reasons:
1.       If I walked away I was very unlikely to find another house as part of this scheme again. Plus it would cause the house my cousin was purchasing to fall through.
2.       We had to have a 10% deposit as part of the contract for buying the house. We couldn’t go down this route.
3.       In our case the seller (my cousin) doesn’t get to set the price. The Housing Association get someone to value it, you don’t get to haggle at the outset like you would normally. Plus if I made my cousin lower her price she wouldn’t have enough money to buy her new house, so she couldn’t drop the price. 
I spoke to my mortgage broker who told me he has seen this happen many times and what normally happens is the seller either agrees to lower the price or the buyer walks away. 

Often the seller will agree to lower the price as it likely any future buyer will have the same problem. 

In fact I recently read this article about down valuations becoming increasingly common so we are definitely not the only people to have experienced this.
However, I shouldn’t think many people have experienced a down valuation with the added complexity of rural shared ownership!
Our broker said the only thing we could do was to get the housing association to appeal the lenders decision. 

They agreed to do this and chose three nearby houses that had sold for comparable amounts. Personally I thought the houses they had picked were a bit dubious but I sent off the appeal anyway. 

My broker told me to accept that we were probably at the end of the road as he had only ever seen a handful of successful appeals during his entire career.

Getting our mortgage reissued
We had to wait ages for anything to happen with the appeal. 

As it turned out Halifax (our lender) had subcontracted out the valuation several times and it had to go through a chain of four people every time anything needed to happen. 

My broker had to pull a few strings but eventually we got a response and against all the odds the appeal was successful! 
The valuation was now £215,000 for the whole house again and we were back on track. Our mortgage offer was finally reissued and approved by the housing association again. 

This whole process took the best part of a month and was incredibly frustrating as the deadline was creeping ever closer. 

The Solicitor saga begins…
While all of this had been going on things were relatively quiet on the solicitor front. 

We had already instructed our searches and were waiting for the local authority one to come back. Our solicitor had held off raising enquiries with the sellers solicitor while we waited for the outcome of the appeal, so these were now raised. 
We paid our deposit monies to the solicitor and wept a little at the vast amount of money being handed over. 

The only good thing about the endless delays was it meant Jared and I had time to save the rest of the cash we needed as we were buying this house well ahead of our original schedule. 
At this point my solicitor pointed out that nowhere in the mortgage offer did Halifax confirm that they were happy with the fact we were only buying 60% of the house. She wrote to them and waited for a response. 
And so began a long and drawn out battle between our solicitors and Halifax’s legal team. 

Every time our solicitor wrote to them they wrote back telling her to check the guidance notes. 

She would respond to say she had read them cover to cover and there was nothing in there that touched on a house like this one and could they please write back to confirm they were happy with this. 

They would respond by telling her to check the guidance notes.

It was absolutely maddening. 

Nothing we did seemed to be able to get through to them. 

Our solicitor spend huge amounts of time on the phone trying to explain to people what she needed from Halifax, only to be told that she couldn’t speak to the legal team directly and that they would get the legal team to write to her. 

Our broker stepped in and got some of his senior contacts at Halifax to push it to the top of the legal teams queue. 

Eventually our solicitor received a letter stating that they were unable to respond to her points in her original letter. 
At this point I rang Halifax myself and went ballistic and I continued to ring them every day until this was sorted. 

I eventually got the name of a manager who personally sorted this out for us and a week later we received a letter from Halifax’s legal department answering each of my solicitors questions in detail. 

Why they couldn’t have done that in the first place I’ll never know. 

Our final mortgage offer was reissued once again to acknowledge the points requested by our solicitor.
By this time we were past the deadline that the Housing Association had set. 

However in the contract for the house it states the valuation carried out to set the asking price remains valid for 6 months. 

As this was carried out in April this meant the valuation lasted until October, which thankfully gave us some breathing space. 

Good thing our solicitor was on the ball and raised this or we would have been back to square one. 
Getting a new mortgage deed

Halifax’s letter told our solicitor that we would need to sign a new mortgage deed and that the Housing Association would also have to sign it. 

Our solicitor enquired as to how she could go about getting her hands on this mortgage deed, only to be told that nobody at Halifax could find it or had indeed ever seen it. 

This deed seemed to be the stuff of legend as they were confident it existed but nobody who worked there had ever come across it.
After a great deal of time wasting it was eventually located and sent to the Housing Association to approve. 

The Housing Associations solicitors then said they wouldn’t sign it and sent back a list of changes they wanted Halifax to make to it. Halifax’s solicitors of course refused to accept any of the changes. 

Our solicitor then sent the Housing Association a terse but effective email pointing out that they were being pedantic and that it is their role to help us, not obstruct us as this was now the only thing preventing us from exchanging contracts. 
The following day they replied to say they would now sign it. 
Jared and I drove into our solicitors office to sign it so that it could immediately be sent off to the Housing Association. 

It was posted on Thursday afternoon and arrived with the Housing Association on Monday morning.

At this point we were told the Housing Association could only sign documents on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, which has to be one of the most ridiculous things I’ve ever heard.

They couldn’t sign it on Monday as it hadn’t yet been processed so we would have to wait until Wednesday. I could barely sit still at work all week I was so frustrated. 

Finally on Wednesday at 4pm I got a call to say that it wouldn’t be signed today as all the directors had gone home for the afternoon. I would now have to wait til Friday. 

I was so upset I actually burst into tears and had to go and have a little cry in the toilets at work.
So it was finally Friday, which was the provisional date for signing contracts and also our solicitor's last day at her company. 

The Housing Association didn’t seal the deed until almost 5 o’clock at which point everything was put on hold over the weekend. 

Another anxious, restless weekend followed and Monday eventually rolled round. 
Exchanging contracts and completion
After many months of struggles I’m sure you can understand that I was expecting yet more problems, but actually this was the quickest and easiest part of the process.
On Monday morning I had a call from my solicitor's paralegal asking what day we would like to complete so that she could exchange contracts.

My answer was pretty much as soon as possible! 

Everyone’s solicitors conferred and I had a phone call an hour later to say that completion was set for the following Tuesday on the 19th September and that we had now exchanged contracts. 
After so much hard work to get to this point I couldn’t help but feel a little deflated afterwards. 

I rang Jared and told him but by the time I got home from work and told my family I was just so relieved I could hardly contain myself.
The following week at work just crawled by but I spent the time trying to organise things like our internet and insurance and changing as many addresses as I could. 
Finally the big day rolled around and I had a call at about 10am to say that completion had taken place and the house was now ours. We were now officially homeowners!

In conclusion
The enormity of it still hasn’t really sank it now to be honest and sometimes I think back to how frazzled and stressed I was and I’m just so grateful that it came together in the end.
Now we have finally moved in life is starting to get back to normal. But I can totally see why people say buying a house is incredibly stressful!
If you are going through the process I hope reading our story has helped you see that things rarely go smoothly when you’re buying or selling a house.
We faced many problems and setbacks and we found a way to overcome them all in the end so hopefully you will too. 
I couldn’t recommend London and Country highly enough if you are looking for a mortgage broker. Our broker Adam Walker went above and beyond for us so many times and I’m convinced his hard work ultimately made the difference. 

Our solicitor Sarah Sams was also amazing and she worked tirelessly to make sure this all came together. Although she has moved onto pastures new we were very pleased with the service we received from Bonallack & Bishop.
Most of all we could never have done it without the endless support of our families and friends who picked us up after every set back and reminded us to keep going. So a huge thank you to them. 
For anyone out there buying a house like ours, please feel free to get in touch and I will try to help you if you are coming across similar problems to us. 

I only know one other person who has bought a house like ours as a resale and they encountered many of the same issues, particularly when it came to dealing with Halifax. 

They successfully made it through and their advice helped me enormously towards the end.

If you are currently buying a house or thinking about buying one in the future, good luck! I promise it was worth all of the stress in the end. 

First time buyer blog post series:

1. We bought our first house
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