2017 - The Highlights

Saturday, 30 December 2017



2017 has been a momentous year for me. So much has happened that I never expected and there have been times that have severely tested my mental strength and resolve.

I'm actually quite sad that this year is over, but looking forward to what 2018 brings.


This is obviously the biggest and most important thing that has happened to me this year (just in case I haven't gone on about it enough yet on this blog). 

Owning my own home has been my number one goal for a very long time, so to finally achieve it feels amazing. I've written quite a lot on here about how it hasn't really sunk in yet that this space is now mine and I can do what I want with it, which I wasn't expecting to feel like. I thought it would me immediate and I would instantly feel like it was mine but its actually taking a long time.

I am loving buying all the little bits that make it ours (my bank balance is probably loving this a lot less) and seeing it start to come together. 

Without a doubt this is one of my proudest achievements ever as Jared and I have done this by ourselves after a lot of hard work. 

It is nice to finally be able to enjoy that hard work and sit back and relax in our own home.

2. I started a new job

I started 2017 determined to find myself a new job where I could push myself a bit harder and learn more about the industry I work in.

It took me a while to find somewhere that was the right fit, but I absolutely love my new job. My new role is more challenging and the company I now work for is keen for me to develop professionally which is all I ever wanted.

While it was a steep learning curve initially I feel that I have started to find my feet now and am looking forward to continuing this next year.

Timing wise, my new job wasn't brilliant as I signed the contract just days before we had our offer accepted on our new house. This complicated our mortgage application but it all worked out in the end so it was worth chancing it. 


It's hard to believe that this trip was already almost a year ago but I absolutely ADORED Norway. 

I've never visited a country before and thought 'Yep, I could live here pretty happily'. It was such an  incredible family holiday and we still talk about it all the time. 

Seeing the Northern Lights, going snowmobiling and husky sledding... all things I've always wanted to do. Not to mention Norway's incredible landscape. 

Now I want to go back and kayak under the Midnight Sun, see more of the fjords and experience the landscape in a different season. 


This year I wrote my first sponsored post as for the first time I was offered a collaboration that I was genuinely interested in. 

I've been writing this blog a long time and it was nice to see it finally pay off in some small way.


Buying a house has meant we have had to learn how to do many new things and that includes decorating. When we got the keys we decided to repaint the vast majority of the house.

A pretty ambitious project for two 23 year olds who have never done anything of the sort to complete on their own. 

It took us three weeks of every evening and weekend (plus a few days off work for Jared) to get it done but it was so worth it. 

The house now looks how we want it to and although we have a tight budget we have made it our own.

I'm really proud of how it looks and can't wait to continue improving the remaining rooms and garden next year.

6. The support from family and friends 

I have been absolutely blown away this year by the continuous support we have had from our family and close friends. Buying this house was the most stressful thing I've ever done and I could never have done it without their help.

My parents especially deserve a huge thank you as they supported me through all the ups and downs that happened over the six months it took from viewing the house to getting the keys.

On top of that they have very kindly donated to us all sorts of furniture and appliances, which has dramatically reduced how much we have had to buy.

In fact, all sorts of people came out of the woodwork to donate or very kindly buy us useful gifts for our new house. As a result we have bought hardly anything new and we are incredibly grateful to everyone who has helped us. 

If any of these people are reading this, thank you so much. It really has made all the difference to us and we've been overwhelmed by everyone's kindness. 

To quote Bridget Jones: An excellent years progress. 

Decorating tips for beginners

Wednesday, 15 November 2017


Painting the kitchen with all the surfaces protected

A little disclaimer here. I am by no means a painting and decorating expert. As I've already mentioned in previous posts, Jared and I were total novices when it came to anything DIY. Let alone deciding to redecorate basically the whole house.

But we have learnt a fair bit along the way. So I thought I would share what we now know for anyone else looking to embark on their own decorating venture for the first time. If you have no idea what to do or how to start, then don't worry. Neither did we!

I tried to find a guide for amateurs but could only come across blogs by professional decorators. While they were really handy, they didn't cover some of the really basic level questions that we had. So I thought I would write my own guide to help anyone else out there who needs it.

1. This is not an easy job.

Now as far as DIY goes, painting is definitely one of the easier things and you don't need to have any particular skills but it is worth mentioning that it is hard work. It's also time consuming. It's not as simple as just slapping some paint on the walls and calling it a day. It will take you a fair bit of time to do properly.

The task will be more complicated if you have high ceilings or very textured surfaces to work with. The amount of work involved will also depend on how many rooms you want to repaint. If you think it's too much for you then start small and work up. If it goes horribly wrong (unlikely but it could) you can always call in a professional to help.

Conversely though, don't be put off by the fact it's hard work. Provided you have got a house in good condition and all you want to do is spruce it up a bit you should be able to do it yourself.

Just be realistic about the amount of work involved and how much time you have to commit to it. There's nothing worse than a half bodged DIY job.

Lampshades for each room, plus decorating kit.

2. Think about what you are trying to achieve.

What look are you going for? How is that different to how the house currently looks? Remember that dark, strong colours can overpower a small room and make it feel smaller. But equally painting everything bland, boring colours can make the house feel sterile.

Ask yourself realistically how much work needs doing. Is it just the colour of one wall you want to change or are you redecorating the whole room?

If you are, then consider that unless the ceiling and skirting boards have been painted recently they are likely to suddenly look dingy once the rest of the room is freshly painted. Although it is more effort, it makes the whole room look brand new.

Basically, you need to know the direction you are trying to go in so that the finished result matches with the rest of the decor in the room. It's no good repainting the room only to discover that your new colour looks awful against your sofa.

If you're not sure where to start, try picking the curtains and lampshades you like and then design the room to go with them. Or pick a cushion to be your centre piece and use that to pull inspiration from. 

3. Preparation is key

This is the part of the job that involves the most work. It's takes the most time and its very labour intensive. It is also very frustrating because it feels like you aren't making any difference to how the room looks. But it makes the most difference to the overall quality.

4. Fill in all the holes

First step is to carefully inspect the walls for any holes and fill them with a suitable filler. Professional decorators mix their own filler as this is significantly cheaper if you have a very large amounts of holes to fill. But you can also buy pre-mixed stuff that you take straight from the pot and put onto the wall.

If you're not a pro with only a few rooms to do there probably isn't much point in buying the product to mix yourself as you will only use a tiny amount of it. We used a premixed Ronseal version and had four rooms with loads of holes in all of them. We only used a tiny bit of the pot as you only need a small amount for each hole.

To fill the hole in, remove any screws that are still in the hole and lightly sand any uneven edges around the hole. A good tip for dealing with annoying plastic rawl plugs is to hammer them in so that they become flush with the wall; pulling these out can sometimes make the hole even worse. Also, the filler will have something to stick to when the rawl plug is still in the hole.

Get a small amount of product onto the plastic spatula that comes with the filler and carefully smear it over the hole. Use the edge of the spatula to spread the product evenly so it is flush with the wall by wiping over the product in a diagonal cross shape. This removes the excess product and gives a smooth finish.

Try to use just enough to fill the hole, but not so much that you've covered more wall then you need to. The more filler around the actual hole the more sanding you have to do when it dries and it doesn't look as neat.

Once the filler has dried (takes about two hours) you might find that is has shrunk back inside the wall a little. This often happens if the hole is quite deep. If this is the case add a second layer of filler over the hole so that the filler is flush with the rest of the wall. It is better to do several thinner layers rather than one massive thick one as the finished result looks better.

Once you are happy with the finish and it is completely dry, sand the surface of the filler so that it is level with the rest of the wall. This is particularly important as it helps blend the hole in with the rest of the wall once you've painted over it.

Doing the above won't completely disguise the hole. You will be able to see where it was once it is painted if you look closely, but it will look better than an actual hole in the wall!

There are lots of YouTube videos on this if you need more help.

5. Repair any damage around the windows and doors

As houses expand and contract the edges of doors, window frames and skirting boards can become damaged and look like they are coming away from the wall. As long as the actual frame is still attached and doesn't need replacing you can neaten this by using decorators caulk.

Snip the end of the caulk off with a stanley knife and then flatten the end slightly so that the caulk comes out in a thinner stream. Then carefully pipe a thin layer around the edge of the window sill or wherever needs a slight tidy up. You can get specialist tools to smooth the caulk out but you can also use your finger.

Smooth the caulk out so that you have a neat finish and wait for it to dry. Once it is completely dry you can use this as your edge  for painting to and it will make the overall result a million times neater. Again there are lots of video tutorials if you need them.

6. Sand the walls, ceiling and skirting boards

We have found that it is a lot easier to do this all in one go. Basically you need to sand the whole area you are going to paint. This could well mean the whole room. You can get electric sanders which will make the whole job a lot quicker and easier.

But if you don't have access to one, aren't confident using one or aren't doing a very big area then you can do it by hand. You can use a block of wood to wrap some sand paper round, which works fine but if you are going to sand a fair bit, then spend a few quid on a sanding block. They make the job a lot easier.

We did all four rooms by hand as we don't have an electric sander and used 180/200 grit sandpaper. We found this to be fine enough to not damage the wall, but it still sanded off any imperfections.

Get yourself a step ladder for reaching the ceiling and tops of the walls and get sanding. Make sure you wear a dust mask and goggles as it gets very dusty very quickly. Open all the windows to get as much fresh air in as you can. Work from top to bottom and focus on removing any flaws in the existing paint job as they will show through.

Don't forget the window sills and door frames if you are planning to repaint those.

This step is absolutely necessary as otherwise your job will look scrappy.
Jared washing the ceiling and walls in the kitchen after we finished sanding

7. Wash the walls

Once you have finished sanding, wash the walls, ceiling and skirting boards down to remove any dust that will stoick to the paint. Use a big sponge as it makes it quicker.

Sugar water is fantastic for removing any greasy marks or dirt on the walls. You can also hoover the skirting boards to remove most of the dust that collects here, as it is much quicker!

8. Get the kit for the job

We wasted a fair bit of money on poor quality kit, stupidly assuming that it was all pretty much the same. A bad workman blames his tools, but even an amateur workman can achieve a good paint job with the right ones!

We used this Prodec extending roller pole with the matching roller frame and these 9 inch roller sleeves. They have all performed brilliantly and we quickly threw out our cheap first purchases as they didn't work properly. 

This is a list of stuff we bought. This post is not sponsored by Toolstation but we did find them to be the best source of equipment but at extremely reasonable prices. You don't have to be a professional to buy kit from there either, but many trade people do. If you have one near you, I would highly recommend going there rather than one of the large high street names like B&Q or Wickes for kit.

Equipment list:


Some extra tips:

- Get proper drop cloths to protect your floors, they work far better than the disposable ones. You can use them again and again.

- Plastic wrap will cover all of your furniture better than dustsheets. It's also very static so it sticks to furniture on its own a lot of the time. It is fantastic for covering the kitchen units, work surfaces, fridge etc.

-If you want to take a break you can wrap your brushes, rollers and roller trays in black plastic bags and seal with sellotape. You can also use clingfilm, but plastic bags will fit a whole roller tray in. Your paint will stay wet and ready to use for a day or two so long as they are well sealed.

-Wash your paint stirrers straight away so you can reuse them for separate colours.

-We didn't bother washing out our rollers once we were ready to paint a different colour and just threw them away as they only cost £2. It was more effort than it was worth.

-Paint pots might seem pointless but it allows you to decant paint from the can for cutting in. This is particularly handy if there is more than one of you working as you both need a supply of paint. Plus they are light enough to hold when you are standing on a ladder.

-In the same vein, you can buy liners for the paint pots that mean you can seal your paint for later use. Plus it means you don't have to keep washing them. They cost hardly anything and make the overall job a lot easier. 
Jared painting the ceiling in the living room

9. Paint the ceiling

Always start at the top of the room and work down. We painted all of our ceiling in Crowns Vinyl Matt in Brilliant White and they look great. It even covered up a seriously dirty corner of the kitchen that we couldn't get to come clean no matter how much we scrubbed it.

Before you roll the ceiling, cut in around the walls and light fittings. By this I mean use a paint brush to paint about a four inch strip around the edge of the ceiling. Also make sure you paint the ceiling paint onto the walls themselves by a couple of inches.

This might seem like pointless work but you cannot get a neat edge using the roller alone. By painting the ceiling colour onto the walls this makes sure that you do not end up with a gap where the ceiling and wall paints meet. As most people paint their ceiling white, when you come to paint your walls you simply paint over the white with the colour of your choice.

Once you have cut in the ceiling you are ready to roll. Make sure you get an extending roller pole and that it extends to a suitable length for you. If you have a tall boyfriend like I do I suggest you get them to paint the ceiling. It is hard work, but the further you have to have the pole extended, the harder it is. A taller person doesn't have to extend the pole as much and therefore it is much less unwieldy to handle.

Paint the ceiling parallel to the natural source of light so that any roller marks are less obvious. If you are right handed, it is easier to roll a room from left to right and vice versa if you are left handed.

Pour a suitable amount of paint into the roller tray and roll it onto the roller. You are aiming to have a fair bit of paint on the roller.

Start your first stroke about a rollers width away from the edge of the wall. Roll the paint out in a straight line and then spread it out in a W motion to either side. Watch some YouTube videos if you are not sure how.

The key to getting an even finish is to make sure you have enough paint on your roller. When the roller is making a harsh sound on the wall, you don't have enough paint.
The spare room with the new paint colour cut in around the doors, walls, skirting boards and radiator.

10. Paint the walls

This is the step that makes the most impact. Again, start by cutting in around the ceiling, skirting boards, light switches, radiators and any plug sockets.

This is the most time consuming part but is essential for a good job. Take your time with cutting in, especially the ceilings and skirting boards because a neat job will make the whole thing look more professional. Use a proper cutting in brush and watch a few YouTube videos so you get the technique. Then the only thing to be done is to just go for it. If you're a bit nervous start with the skirting boards as they are easier and pick a section that won't be seen very often. For example behind a door or where a large piece of furniture goes. Then any mistakes will be less obvious.

Once you have cut in you can roll the walls using the same technique you used for the ceiling. Again, if you are right handed, paint from left to right. You will probably need to do at least two coats to get an even finish and make sure none of it looks patchy.

11. Paint the trim

Once your walls are dry it's time to paint the skirting boards, window sills and door frames. We used Dulux Satinwood for ours as it gives a more modern, flat finish as opposed to gloss. It's also easier to work with and more forgiving. However it isn't as durable as gloss, which is one drawback.

A cutting in brush is fantastic for doing the skirting boards as you can paint virtually the whole thing in one go and the pointed end is great for fiddly bits.

Use painters tape to protect the floor by taping along the edge of the skirting board so you can paint the full length of the skirting board without ruining the carpet. 

We only needed one coat for this and it has made a big difference to how the rooms look. As everything is freshly painted they now look brand new.

Moving into our New House

Sunday, 12 November 2017




Ok everyone I have an announcement to make: Jared and I have finally moved into our new house!

We finally moved in on the 28th October and I hope you’ll forgive me for taking so long to write this post. As I’m sure you can imagine, it’s been pretty hectic and I haven’t had time to do anything other than work on the house. 

We celebrated our first night with a picnic on the floor because we were too tired to cook. It was a pretty sweet meal though, knowing all our hard work was worth it in the end. 

By the time this post goes live, we will be returning from a trip to Birmingham to collect Jared’s stuff from his parents house. This is our final phase of moving stuff and then we can finally consider ourselves settled.

So we spent a week moving our stuff very slowly each evening, one car load of stuff at a time. Eventually we only had the absolute essentials at my parents house. By Friday evening my room only had my bed and my empty wardrobe left it in. It looked like I had just moved in, rather than moved out.

That was the worst part as I felt all over the place and quite emotional about the huge change that was about to take place. I was desperate to just get on with it as I knew it would be fine once I actually moved. It finally dawned on me how a big a moment this was and how permanent this would be.


On Saturday Jared and I took our bed apart and reassembled it in our new room. My Dad very kindly helped up move my wardrobe and mattress and did all manner of small jobs like helping put up curtain poles and installing our new cooker (thank you Daddy, you're the best).

It was all going so swimmingly until we started to reassemble our TV. Jared’s sister very kindly gave us our TV for free just after we graduated last summer. She had bought it second hand at uni and then moved to a house where it wouldn’t fit. Although a 50 inch plasma looked ridiculous in my bedroom at my parents house, I can’t afford to turn down a free TV. It worked fine but the only downside was the stand that it came with. Not only was it ugly but it didn’t seem sturdy enough to hold the weight. But the previous owner had removed all the attachments you needed to fix an alternative.

On top of all of it’s other negatives, the stand was also a right faff to take apart and put together. After an hour of aggravating messing about, the TV was finally back on its stand in our new house. At which point there was an almighty crash as the TV fell off onto the glass stand which shattered into millions of tiny shards. To cap it all the TV landed on a leg from the stand and smashed the screen. Pretty disastrous all round.

It took us an hour to carefully pick up all the tiny pieces of glass and hoover the whole room. At which point we discovered that it wasn’t our fault that it happened. The metal bracket on the TV had physically sheared off, causing the TV to fall. So it was basically an accident waiting to happen and I’m mostly grateful it didn’t fall on anyone. 


My parents very kindly let us borrow their TV from their bedroom (after they had finished laughing), while we waited for our new one to arrive. As we didn't have a stand now that our old one was in a million pieces we had to improvise! 



The plus side is we now have a lovely new 4K 50 inch Samsung and it is so so nice *inserts heart eyed emoji*! Watching Blue Planet 2 on it is pretty out of this world compared to our old one.

Our spare room is still an absolute mess and will only get worse once we bring all of Jared's stuff back from Birmingham. But I'm just calling it a work in progress ;)

The best thing is that our cat Boo is now feeling settled and at home here. I love her being here as it reminds me of home and it's hard to feel stressed when a cat is asleep on your lap.

Actually living here feels very strange and although all of our stuff is here and we both feel comfortable, it doesn't yet feel like home. It feels like we're staying in a holiday cottage for a few weeks and then we'll be going back to my parents house. I guess that will change with time as we get used to it. 

If you have any tips for making a new place feel like home, let me know!

Bonfire Night Party

Wednesday, 8 November 2017



So last Sunday was Bonfire Night, which is personally one of my favourite things about the nights drawing in.

My family live on the outskirts of our village so we don’t have close neighbours so we had our own Bonfire Party.

My Dad built the bonfire and one of my sisters made our Guy Fawkes (complete with very historical curly wig and baseball cap).

One of my other sisters made us homemade hot chocolate with whipped cream, marshmallows, chocolate flakes and hot salted caramel. This was quite possibly one of the best things I’ve ever had and it doesn’t matter what Costa or Starbucks have got on their Christmas menu, they won’t be able to make something as good as that.

Standing around in the freezing cold, wrapped up in warm hats and gloves while sipping a cup of this magical hot chocolate is what Bonfire Night is all about.

We lit the bonfire at 6pm and watched our Guy Fawkes go up in flames before having some fireworks.

Mum, Jared and I had been hard at work preparing Bonfire Party food to warm us up. We had baked potatoes with mango chutney curry, butternut squash and chorizo pizza, vegetable crisps, honey mustard sausage rolls and cheese straws. We made mulled cider to drink along with plenty of wine and beer. For pudding we made toffee apple crumble with salted caramel sauce and chocolate and marshmallow roasted bananas. 

I sadly didn't get a chance to take any pictures of the food as everyone was too busy scoffing it, but I'm sure you can imagine it.  

Some of the recipes we just made up, such as the crumble which I never use a recipe for and just do it by eye (and taste). However I've linked any recipes that I did use, or was inspired by in case you fancy making some of them yourself.

Everything was quick, easy and filling and crucially we prepped almost all of it the day before to make life easier.

It was a great evening spent with family, enjoying each others company and tasty food.

Did you celebrate Bonfire Night? Or make yourself some seasonal treats? Let me know!

Painting progress

Sunday, 8 October 2017



So it's been a week since my last post and guess what? We still haven't moved in!

As we are learning, painting is all about the prep work if you want to do a good job. We didn't just spend pretty much all the money we've ever had on a house to not at least try to do a decent attempt. 

So have we made any progress this week? I am absurdly pleased to announce that we have completely finished our first room!

That's right everyone, the kitchen is DONE. Wow Amber, you're thinking, it took you a whole week to slap some paint on the walls of one room.

But let me tell you, it's not as easy as it sounds. Especially when you have no clue what you are doing and learning from a mixture of google, YouTube and advice from friends and family. We both work full time and only have a couple of hours each evening and during the weekends to get things done.

The main issue we have discovered is as soon as you decide to make a start, you immediately begin to notice more and more areas that need attention. 

For instance, when we first bought the house, we were only planning to paint the spare room as it used to be the kids room and is currently several different colours. We decided we were fine with the rest of it, we were just relieved to finally have the keys. 

But then we decided to tackle the holes left in the wall. Once they had been filled in we decided to do the same with all of the (many) holes in every room in the house. But the walls then looked patchy. So then we thought, we'll just paint the walls. But that made us realise the ceilings would look a bit grim if everything else was freshly painted. And then we noticed the many scuff marks on the skirting boards so decided to tackle them too. But then we realised they were gloss, which means they all have to be sanded down. Then, once we actually started to paint we noticed that a lot of the sealant round some of the doors and windows has become cracked and messy with time so it needs pulling out and redoing... literally the list is endless!

So yes it is taking us longer than we thought because every time we start something we notice all the little things that make the overall job bigger than was first expected. As I've already mentioned, my parents have spent 15 years building their house from scratch, so none of this is a surprise to me but it is still pretty frustrating. You think you're finally on track to just get on with it and then you notice yet ANOTHER thing that you need to fix first. 

But still, those little things are what makes the overall finish high quality, and even though we are beginners we have no intention of doing a bodge job.

So anyway, back to the kitchen. In theory this should have been quick to do as most of the walls are covered by the kitchen cabinets but in actual fact it made it really tricky. All of the cupboards and counters had to be covered up, then all the walls, skirting boards and ceiling sanded and washed down. Because of the way the cupboards, windows and doors in this room fit together you can actually only roll a small section and the rest has had to be done by hand, which is time consuming and difficult.

The time it takes is pretty much entirely spent in doing all of the above. Once you have finally finished cutting all the walls in and its time to pick up the roller and actually paint most of the wall...well it's all done in a few minutes once you get the hang of it!

My dream kitchen is a contemporary farmhouse style, pale cabinets, wooden surface, flagstone floors, large welsh dresser, Belfast sink... everyone who knows me is probably thinking, wait Amber, this sounds JUST LIKE YOUR PARENTS KITCHEN. But as I've already said before while it was my Mum's dream kitchen and her vision, I had a lot of input into it. 

So it's no surprise that I've taken the aspects I like most and recreated them in my own kitchen. We can't afford to replace the units, the floor, or the work surface and the kitchen isn't big enough for a full size welsh dresser. But I have recreated the colour scheme with a soft, neutral undertoned cream (Dulux 'Fine Cream') on the biggest walls and then a soft greeny gray on the two smaller end walls (Farrow & Ball 'Mizzle'). 


This was for two reasons, one is that the kitchen is very long and thin and by painting the two end walls a darker colour it helped improve the proportions of the room. The other is that Farrow & Ball paint is eye wateringly expensive. The 5L can we bought was £43. And it was the only colour that there was no tester for, so it was going on the wall once I had opened it even if I hated it!

Luckily though I absolutely love it! It's exactly the colour I wanted (I spent forever deciding) and it has completely changed the whole feel of the room. Before it felt bland and empty and now it has it's own character. Although it was expensive the quality of the paint itself is fantastic and it is extremely matte. Not only does this make it easier to work with, but the end result is very striking. It was worth spending the money because it has made such an impact. 

We have also decided to do the skirting boards and door frame in satinwood rather than gloss and this has had a surprisingly big effect on the room. Personally I think gloss looks quite dated and the satinwood has definitely made the room seem fresher and more modern. Plus it ties in with the F&B paint as it is *so* matte that gloss skirting boards against it would look pretty odd. So the extra effort it took to sand them and repaint them was 100% worth it, even though the change is not that obvious.

Maybe one day we will be able to afford to replace the actual kitchen itself but for now I'm going to recreate my farm house look with the accessories, now that I've got the colour scheme I wanted. I'm also on the look out for a small dresser to upcycle as my next project once we've finished painting...

We've also completely sanded, washed and prepped the front room so we're ready to paint that today. As long as we stay disciplined and keep working on it every evening and during the weekends we will make steady progress. Once the front room is done we will be halfway there! Plus the two upstairs rooms will be easier as they are both just going to be one solid colour, which will reduce the amount of cutting in we need to do. Cutting in corners in the absolute worst!

Hopefully it'll be worth it in the end!
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